Why is the World so Competitive ?

India is probably the only place i know people where people “STUDY” day and night and slog all their young hours for getting through in competitive exams.There is competition everywhere, from music,sports,painting and the worst part of it is that people don’t just see   how competition is eating up all their lives.

My Dad is probably the most competitive out of all the people i know, he keeps telling me that,”How will people judge you if you don’t get marks,how will you show your knowledge.” and much more.Probably,that’s the same thing that almost all of the Dad’s of India would be doing at this point of time.And the petty students who can barely think anything apart from drilling their minds, find it quite encouraging and motivating to realize their dream of getting into the so-called best universities of India and the world.The problem here is that,students do not even find anything that they are doing interesting and they completely loose themselves without even any interest in the subject.I was recently reading an article on an “IITJEE Topper”, he said that he was always working hard towards his goal and was  always with books,even after he cracked the exam he was preparing for other competitve exams and IPhO.

Now, how stupid do you think that is? A person who hardy has any interest in the subject,he takes up Computer Science Engineering,after going to “International Physics Olympiad” (WTF? Do you even like Physics?) and not to forgot who has been studying that subject for nearly 4 years! does not even choose “Physics” as his main subject.

This is certainly a clear indication that people of my age are looking for so much fame and status at such and young age and achieve stuff which they are not even interested.

The fact that bothers me the most is that its just PURE and ONLY hardword that drives them and not Obssession towards the subject which is just another synonym of hardwork for the uninterest freaks.

If any student of my age and like a few friends of mine,barely tend to stay free and this is not because they don’t want to but its because they are just too conscious of his other competitive friends would be doing, who might eventually get better “MARKS” in some dumb fucking exam.

ALL OF THIS JUST PISSES MY ASS OFF! I seriously would’t care about all this shit but the problem is that I’m forced to face all of this shit because of my competitive parents and  not to forget “Competitive Teachers” as well!

Infact,It’s not just India put the whole world is getting so competitive that people hardly ever enjoy what they are doing!

The best way out of all this mess is.

Do what you love to do and just try to make some money from it.Don’t care about others,follow your own path because it might be brighter and more fun that the used ones.

Is Partying Hard cool ?

Even though my brother doesn’t speak out loud on this,I have come to this conclusion from a few conversations of his.It is evident from that,that he feels that life without partying,hanging out with friends and so on is the only way to have fun…and of course…dancing.Well,i don’t have any objection towards dancing but i just don’t find it fun and i also don’t treat it as something that only indecent people do,he feels that i don’t dance because i think myself as a gentleman,which is certainly wrong! I love listening to music and the music on the dance floor gets really noisy and it’s not exactly fun to dance at.I enjoy softer music and it deserves as much attention and respect as the so-called “cool” and noisy music.

I used to like rock music but i lost almost all interest in it after listening and playing to pure music.

I don’t think he understands me on that and ever will.

To me music is an art and is enjoyed in my own sweet way,rather than showing off your enjoyment.Actually,that is quite true,people without enjoying music just pretend to enjoy it and dance hard just to flirt with girls..I hope my brother doesn’t fall into that category!

It's getting hard to talk to my Friends..

True and Best Friends

Finding it hard to talk to my Friends..

For some reason which i starting to face problems while interacting with my friends.All of my friends are really good competitors and they are ready to do anything for for marks,basically very good competitors whatever involves marks,they try to be good at it.

Sadly I'm exactly opposite i'm not bothered about marks in fact i hate them because they are a very bad way to rate the abilities of a person.

Like in my previous articles "What's Wrong in Arguing ?" i keep arguing with them(trust me,they are far far interesting from marks!) but they are hardly bothered about it just because it about arguing!

Moreover when i try to share some of "My Phislophical Views" they are hardly botherd because i think i seem to be boring them.When i tell that competition is not the only thing they say "Your not being Practical!".How lame can that reason get ?

Have they ever seen the true beauty of the world and have they ever realized how lucky they were to live on such a beautiful planet and lucky to have all the comforts in life.Have they ever though of making the world a better make to live in rather than only think of JEE and Competition! If they did they wouldn't give such a dumb reason for that.

I wish i could really set their thinking right about how things should be working in the world and rather fall into the materialistic things that the humans have sadly created !

What's wrong in Arguing ?

Calvin Agruing

What's Wring with Arguing ?

All my friends and parents always tell me that i argue a lot! I don't know why they don't want to argue.Because of this i don't get a chance to even explain a few things to people even though what they think is right is wrong.I always argue with my friends,but not for fun even mine has a point even they have a good point and that's the whole point why we have to argue,so that we can get the right answer.

There might be infinite numbers of ways to approach a problem but we have to intimately land up in one solution.

Apparently mine was just one of the ways to approach and what we should have done was to try to find the answer,but no one ever listens to me and most of the time they don't ask me doubts because i have a point similar to their's and they don't like to debate to get the right answer.

That's why "Sri Hari" and "Akash" are one of my best friends in FIITJEE (My coaching Class) we always love to come up with new points and love arguing for the point which we stand for.

But it does't mean that we should argue just for the heck of it even when you know it is wrong.

What i feel is that we should get involved in arguments so that we can understand how other's think and take the good qualities in them.Also our understanding on the argument would improve and conceptually we would be even more enlightened.

Whenever i try to make this point to my friends or whomever i meet,they usually ignore me and i find it really hard to talk with them because i have to think twice or thrice to speak in such a way so that it doesn't seem like I'm arguing,even though it's not the real me !

I tried searching for images on Google for the term "Argue" and i was only able to find such negatives pictures which give us a completely different understanding of what it should have been !

It's good to face diffculties

This is the perfect example of trying.In my earlier post "Unable to Find the Solution of an Interesting Functions" while writing i was not sure of solving the quation it looked quite difficult! But i finally manged to solve it.

One of the keys things i learnt while solving this interesting function was to think in different angles and not to lose hope at a point where you find no way of even arriving at the answer.

Whatever observation you make now will be necessary for the next time and no steps are waste even though it's not related to the answer.It's my personal experience as well.I often land up at an equation which has no clue to the answer,but as i start understanding it more,the ability to understand the original questions increases substantially and you might ultimately end up getting the solution in another way.

We often misunderstand failures as a waste of time,but actually they guide us to the solution in a more logical way which no other person can and the knowledge which you gain through it is enormous

That's why people who are very successful in younger ages may not be very successful when it really matters, as compared to the people who face more difficulties as they are the ones who understand and gain more knowledge while reasoning the difficulties.

Anyway the infinite series which i solved was

y = sin(cos(sin( ....∞ (x)))